Woman come in different forms in our life and every time they do good for us. Man should not force his authority over women just to dominate her or empower her. Woman…may be a mother or daughter or wife or grandmother…will be waiting for someone who can relly care and show some love and affection towards them….and if you are the person doing it….she can do anything for you. In Indian culture it is rightly said that Gods reside in a place wher there is respect for woman…and its an evidence from past that its only the insult and disgrace towards the self respect of a woman that the epic tales of Ramayana and Mahabharata and many more have occured…and not to exclude a few battles.
A bitter incident became a hot news yesterday….when an actress was involved in one of the shameful events of being slapped on floors of her film by a much elderly and responsible director. Nagatihalli Chandrashekar is a known name in Kannada film industry…as a creative director who gave many thought provoking movies. The heroine of his latest movie “Nooru Janmakoo” which was on the verge of its complition at Singapore…..Aindrita Rai…complained to the movie forum that her director slapped her on the sets without reasons…and she was a victim of similar incidents of physical and mental trauma every now and again during the course of the movie. The director defended the act by telling that the irresponsible attitude and mis behaviour of the actress which led to this act of his….and being in the place of her father he could never dream of doing any physical mental or verbal assault on her…as indicated by his previous clean track record.
Who ever is a culprit….what ever is the fact….the incident on other side has rised the question of the value of a womans respect in the view of a man. Women has been a victim of physical mental and verbal assaults time and again at various fronts of life….home and away. Many tolerate…few forget…few forgive…few adjust…but a very few fight and revolt for their respect and rights.
It also rises the question of the responsibilities of elders towards their younger ones…and vice versa. Todays generation of kids are promising adn talented…no doubt…but at the same time they are pampered so that they become irresponsible and egoistic. Parents should take care of this issue and make their kids responsible towards society…rather than pampering them. At the same time the elders should also should find softer ways of teaching their younger generation and guide them in a positive path…rather than losing their temper…beating and shoutin at them. The generation gap should be patched up…and the attempt should be from both sides.
Another question is about the pressure management of situations. Those who are heading their teams should be calm and composed so as not to lose cool when matters. They should be the best counsellors when situation demands and manage pressure softly. Every problem has an answer…the problem is searching it…and that too a proper one.
To conclude….women are our responsibility. She should be respected from heart.And when things are beyond control…woman should fight for her dignity. Women should realise that they are not born to tolerate, sacrifice, forget and forgive….and at last to sit in a corner and cry in dark…so that no one notices her……………
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